What is the most common gift that people love to give?
The prize is " ADVICE " ! ! !
We like to give advice free of charge , even when not asked .
If you do not believe , try it at the time was with a group of friends , tell them about your idea to do a new business , and see what happens .
If there are six people in the group , You might get six different opinions , complete with personal recommendations and advice .
Without a doubt , all the "advice " that is a gift given to you with good intentions . That 's how your friends show their affection and attention to you . How you can resist a bit of " wisdom " is?
So , You must be polite .you listen . However does not mean or not useful source of advice or counsel that , your obligations as a friend who is polite , and pretended to be interested in the views , feedback , or criticism " positive " them .
Even so , be careful . At a certain point in the conversation , the majority opinion trashy beginning to make sense , and you were confused and doubting his own your ability
Half an hour later , a friend , an acquaintance or a stranger who shared to you is gone , but instantly successful your plans has been a mess in front of your eyes .
Half an hour earlier , you so sure about the potential Solie Js , Js Solie but now can not forget the pessimistic prediction and a low expectation friends Solie Js .
The more Solie Js want to ignore it , truer it becomes.
Now , there are six " cow " that undermined the grass in the main part of the mind Solie Js , of which previously did not exist .
So what ?
Well ....
At that time , I was talking to someone about my new project which will begin , when suddenly he interrupted me and said , " Camilo , let me give you some free advice ... "
I said , " Wait, before you say anything to me , let me ask you some questions . "
He was surprised by my quick reaction , but said , " Okay , ask ... "
I continued , "Have you ever had an experience in this field and if so , whether it was a successful experience , do you feel worthy of giving advice in this matter ? After all , what would you say might affect vision and my hope in this project , and I do not need to tell you again how important this project for me . So if you are really sure of the precious gift that you will give me this ? "
He thought for a moment , then said , " Forget it . "
Solie Js may think I be rude to not let our opinion. However , I could have listened politely , then ignored it .
But I do not want to risk opening my mind to the negative opinions and expectations of others.
Once an idea is embedded in the minds of Solie Js , Js Solie became his servant . If it turns out that the idea is wrong , and Solie Js let him enter and grow in mind Solie Js , an idea that would change the views , beliefs , and expectations about the ability Solie Solie Js Js own .
False idea that could even destroy life Solie Js .
Solie Js need to understand that a lot of " negative thoughts " , which makes us bound to the life sober , actually when traced is giving another person .
We often fall victim to the negative influences of others and allow them to instill false confidence in our subconscious that ultimately will limit the growth of the physical , emotional , and intellectual us .
Wrong ideas that are programmed into our minds by others that, however would be a bad influence on our lives .
Do not let false ideas pollute our hope of success . Always ask first , whether the person who will give us counsel is a decent person . Listen only from people who are already successful in the same field , not just "the story of a bird " .
( " Once Upon A Cow " , Dr . Camilo Cruz )
The prize is " ADVICE " ! ! !
We like to give advice free of charge , even when not asked .
If you do not believe , try it at the time was with a group of friends , tell them about your idea to do a new business , and see what happens .
If there are six people in the group , You might get six different opinions , complete with personal recommendations and advice .
Without a doubt , all the "advice " that is a gift given to you with good intentions . That 's how your friends show their affection and attention to you . How you can resist a bit of " wisdom " is?
So , You must be polite .you listen . However does not mean or not useful source of advice or counsel that , your obligations as a friend who is polite , and pretended to be interested in the views , feedback , or criticism " positive " them .
Even so , be careful . At a certain point in the conversation , the majority opinion trashy beginning to make sense , and you were confused and doubting his own your ability
Half an hour later , a friend , an acquaintance or a stranger who shared to you is gone , but instantly successful your plans has been a mess in front of your eyes .
Half an hour earlier , you so sure about the potential Solie Js , Js Solie but now can not forget the pessimistic prediction and a low expectation friends Solie Js .
The more Solie Js want to ignore it , truer it becomes.
Now , there are six " cow " that undermined the grass in the main part of the mind Solie Js , of which previously did not exist .
So what ?
Well ....
At that time , I was talking to someone about my new project which will begin , when suddenly he interrupted me and said , " Camilo , let me give you some free advice ... "
I said , " Wait, before you say anything to me , let me ask you some questions . "
He was surprised by my quick reaction , but said , " Okay , ask ... "
I continued , "Have you ever had an experience in this field and if so , whether it was a successful experience , do you feel worthy of giving advice in this matter ? After all , what would you say might affect vision and my hope in this project , and I do not need to tell you again how important this project for me . So if you are really sure of the precious gift that you will give me this ? "
He thought for a moment , then said , " Forget it . "
Solie Js may think I be rude to not let our opinion. However , I could have listened politely , then ignored it .
But I do not want to risk opening my mind to the negative opinions and expectations of others.
Once an idea is embedded in the minds of Solie Js , Js Solie became his servant . If it turns out that the idea is wrong , and Solie Js let him enter and grow in mind Solie Js , an idea that would change the views , beliefs , and expectations about the ability Solie Solie Js Js own .
False idea that could even destroy life Solie Js .
Solie Js need to understand that a lot of " negative thoughts " , which makes us bound to the life sober , actually when traced is giving another person .
We often fall victim to the negative influences of others and allow them to instill false confidence in our subconscious that ultimately will limit the growth of the physical , emotional , and intellectual us .
Wrong ideas that are programmed into our minds by others that, however would be a bad influence on our lives .
Do not let false ideas pollute our hope of success . Always ask first , whether the person who will give us counsel is a decent person . Listen only from people who are already successful in the same field , not just "the story of a bird " .
( " Once Upon A Cow " , Dr . Camilo Cruz )